October 16, 2017

Free Community Event – November 4, 2017

Join us for this *FREE community event where we will be discussing how covert dynamics of shame and grandiosity drive the old paradigm of marriage/relationship and […]
October 16, 2017

Masculinity: A Civilization at War With Itself – Part II

Mars and Venus: Disintegrating the Old Conceptions of Patriarchal Masculinity in Marriage What is extraordinary is that once men are woken up, they can be taught […]
October 16, 2017

Masculinity: A Civilization at War With Itself

The past election brought to the relationship stage a polarization in this country like we have not seen since the 1960’s. It brought to light a […]
October 9, 2017

Do Your Marriage Conflicts Hoarsened Your Voice?

We know that marriage/committed relationships can provoke parts of us that are not nice or appealing. Truth be told most couples journey from the sacred to […]
October 4, 2017

A Vision for Two: How to Build a Partnership the 12-Step Way – Part I

  One of the biggest challenges that recovering people deal with are relationships. It is important to realize that building a relationship in recovery is a […]
October 1, 2017

What are Couples Really Fighting About When They are Fighting About Politics?

Politics has been at the forefront of nearly everyone’s mind lately, with protest gatherings on both sides across our country. Typically, when couples go to bed […]
September 28, 2017

Is Politics Creeping Under the Sheets

Politics has been at the forefront of nearly everyone’s mind lately, with protest gatherings on both sides across our country. Typically, when couples go to bed […]
September 25, 2017

I’ve Stopped the Addiction, But My Addictiveness is Killing Me

What is often missing in addiction recovery is deep-feeling (inner child) work. The word addiction can be confusing because most addicts/alcoholics like myself have put the […]
September 15, 2017

Black Lesbian Couple’s Therapist Impeaches the #1 Killer of Marriages

Relationships are baffling. The baffling part is how we can both love and hate the person we love the most. I remember when Yael and I […]