August 6, 2017

I am Infuriated with my Wife – Part II

Yael and I actually do possess the capacity to empathize with each other’s intentions and behavior, but it was a capacity we failed entirely to draw […]
August 6, 2017

I am Infuriated with my Wife!

And I behaved in a way that is less than who I am. Yael and I don’t have children so our mornings are usually serene and […]
July 20, 2017

Emotional Sobriety and Relationships: The Elephant in the Living Room

Do you sometimes have trouble seeing how your behavior impacts others? Do you rage at your partner and after you calm down apologize and brush it […]
July 19, 2017

The Relational Paradigm

The relational paradigm is a shift in thinking. It shifts our perspective from seeing a world made up of things, to seeing a world that is […]
July 5, 2017

Shame, The Presidency and Healing Our America

It is ugly! It hurts; it’s toxic; it’s destructive. It threatens our joy and it gets in the way of us deeply connecting with others. When […]
June 27, 2017

Before You Say F*ck This Relationship, Watch This [VIDEO]

We all come into relationships with two opposing fears: the fear of being abandoned, and the fear of getting too close or intimacy. These fears will […]
June 21, 2017

A House Divided Against? Connecting Couples to a Power Greater than Themselves

The purpose of romantic love is to bond us with another so that we begin to experience the inevitable tension of the power struggle … and […]
June 12, 2017

The Couple’s Pilgrimage

The “Couple’s Pilgrimage: Receiving a Renewed Sense of Love” is a new couples seminar that is a fusion between my private intensive sessions and the couple’s […]
June 9, 2017

Adult Children of Alcoholics: How to Get Out of Fear and into Healing and Transformation

Attempting to take one’s life over a break-up might seem dramatic and perhaps over the top to some people, but if you’re someone who grew up […]