December 7, 2017

Sexual Allegations: Were These Powerful Men Abused as Boys?

Remember the movie Spotlight? Patriarchy is not just individual male psychopathology—Patriarchy is normal! This is about how we have raised males to believe that violence is […]
November 12, 2017

We Can Learn a Lot About Fidelity by Understanding Infidelity

  In the previous blog I began a conversation that addresses the complexity of the relational dynamics that lead to affairs, one that I believe is […]
November 5, 2017

I Can’t Stop Thinking About My Wife Cheating on Me

Put yourself in this scenario: your wife leaves you alone in the room while she goes and takes a shower. You’re sitting there doing nothing until […]
October 26, 2017

Without Love the Spiritual Path is Hidden From Us

It’s challenging to learn new talking and listening boundaries in recovery. In fact, it’s evolutionary. Our efforts to learn how to talk and listen to the […]
October 16, 2017

Free Community Event – November 4, 2017

Join us for this *FREE community event where we will be discussing how covert dynamics of shame and grandiosity drive the old paradigm of marriage/relationship and […]
October 16, 2017

Masculinity: A Civilization at War With Itself – Part II

Mars and Venus: Disintegrating the Old Conceptions of Patriarchal Masculinity in Marriage What is extraordinary is that once men are woken up, they can be taught […]
October 16, 2017

Masculinity: A Civilization at War With Itself

The past election brought to the relationship stage a polarization in this country like we have not seen since the 1960’s. It brought to light a […]
October 9, 2017

Do Your Marriage Conflicts Hoarsened Your Voice?

We know that marriage/committed relationships can provoke parts of us that are not nice or appealing. Truth be told most couples journey from the sacred to […]
October 4, 2017

A Vision for Two: How to Build a Partnership the 12-Step Way – Part I

  One of the biggest challenges that recovering people deal with are relationships. It is important to realize that building a relationship in recovery is a […]