Congratulations … if you are reading this you have probably decided to seek help for your relationship.
And often it is a difficult decision.
What you have stumbled upon is a magical, proven effective, relational process that can move you and you partner in a much kinder direction when you are stuck in an unhappy spiraling of arguing, defensiveness, or just ordinary terrible listening. The idea behind the therapy that I offer couples is rooted in basic common sense: it is near impossible to begin to solve your problems if the energy between you and your partner feels polluted and dangerous. If partners are unable to make connection with each other in a way that feels genuine, there are virtually no words that can fix what's wrong. Whether those words are expressed directly or not, forceful or compliant; the continued experience of feeling unheard, unseen and unappreciated leads to rage. There is a special power in assisting couples transform unproductive, mean or just plain crummy interactions into moments of connection. This is the real arena--how the two of you are treating each other in the moment. Contact me for an initial consultation or sign up for my workshop.
It’s easy to think that relationships are about luck or finding the right person. Wrong. To be successful in relationships today you need the right guidance and the right tools. This program will give you the tools to help you understand what is going on in relationships and introduce you to a whole new way of life.
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- How to layer by layer, step by step move away from knee-jerk reactivity into deliberate conscious actions.
- How you contribute to the relational "nightmare" and how to change it.
- How expand your emotional social script and experience a deeper bond and connection.
- How your childhood coping mechanisms are running your relationship and how to regain your power.
- How the way you communicate is creating the distance between you.