From time to time something really touches me deeply. It just takes my breath away and brings me to tears. This was one of those moments.
I checked in with several couples who coached with me to see how they were doing. I discovered that most of them were still feeling hopeful, excited and using the rituals and principles they learned from me about to create a conscious and connected relationship.
I know that sustaining a relationship … where you feel safe enough to express yourself, no matter what, might seem impossible.
Testimonial #1 – “Before we found Paula we had cancelled our wedding because we couldn’t get on the same page communication wise. We needed help. We signed up for coaching wondering if there was hope. We found it! We were surprised how things changed between us. We left the program being able to communicate so we could listen to each other. The wedding is back on!”
Testimonial #2 – “The closeness and holding hands makes me not want to attack my wife.”
Testimonial #3 – “I have difficulty expressing myself, I ruminate and it stays in my head. This process gave us some tools.”
Testimonial #4 – “This process was a “life-changing” experience. I was able to see my responsibility, that I play a part. That was new for me. I don’t like that I am a hailstorm.”
Testimonial #5 – “After he cheated I filed for divorce. We found Paula on the internet, it was a long-shot. We went to Providence and in the first session, Paula was patient with us. She asked us about the dream we had when we got married. After she read it to us, my husband could not stop crying. The sessions were emotional. We had never been so honest I could not believe it. This process really works. It’s not what we expected.”
If you are in a committed relationship/marriage and you want more intimacy, safety, and passion between you, you are going to have to make it a priority.
I just re-opened the doors to my “Crossing the Bridge” program for couples who want a means of connecting and revealing their true selves in relationship.
If you would like to be considered for this program to coach with me (Paula) and change your relationship, click reply and let me know.
Don’t stop now, let me help. I help you through the fear, uncertainty, the pain and … I help you integrate the past so you can create a new story for yourselves and your relationship.
You do have to email me back and let me know that you’re interested.
I am happy to help; just hit reply and let me know if you’d like to learn about my “Crossing the Bridge” program–private coaching exclusively for couples. Let’s do this together.
Wishing you love and light,
Paula M. Smith M.Div., MFT
Certified Imago Therapist
Relationship Coach
401-782-7899
P.S. I remember thinking that having a successful relationship meant working on my “individual issues,” and that would be enough to sustain a relationship. We soon learned that focusing on our “individual issues” pulled us farther apart, and it didn’t help us change the way we interacted toward each other. But when we made the decision to stop working “individually” and committed to growing together as a “couple,” our life and relationship changed. I’d like to show you how we did it.
Contact me if you’d like to speak to me about my couples coaching program.
