We all come into relationships with two opposing fears: the fear of being abandoned, and the fear of getting too close or intimacy. These fears will get triggered when our relationship becomes more involved or we make a commitment. The closer and more intimate we become, the higher the stakes. We not only become afraid…
The purpose of romantic love is to bond us with another so that we begin to experience the inevitable tension of the power struggle … and stay committed to the process of healing and growth. A relationship that is going through a power struggle is, in a sense, like a house divided against itself. It…
The “Couple’s Pilgrimage: Receiving a Renewed Sense of Love” is a new couples seminar that is a fusion between my private intensive sessions and the couple’s workshop. I will be presenting this One-day learning opportunity on Saturday, July 22, 2017 from 10:00am – 5:00pm at the Hope Artiste Village, 1005 Main St. Suite 1208 Pawtucket,…
Attempting to take one’s life over a break-up might seem dramatic and perhaps over the top to some people, but if you’re someone who grew up in alcoholism it may not seem that far fetched. Having protected our families by keeping secrets, we continue to act in certain ways to get approval. We take responsibility…
Hey Friends! I know that loving someone who has walls up is not a careless decision. It takes real commitment to give yourself as the one who takes the first strike at the concrete surrounding someone’s heart. Many of us in recovery are people who have painted over the fragile skin of our hearts with…