There is no getting around this fact—there will be times when we will feel very skeptical, cynical or bleak about our marriage. We will also wonder why we got married. We will feel as though we made a disastrous mistake in tying our life to this person. Those moments won’t necessarily last, but they are…
Trauma is an emotional response following any distressing event like abuse, violence or a natural disaster. Sufferers develop emotional issues like PTSD, anxiety, depression, guilt, sadness and anger. There has been a lot of research on developing healthy ways to cope with trauma. Imago Therapy heals trauma, depression, anxiety, PTSD & many psychological problems by…
I think the comment section online should be a beautiful public, objective platform of our collective community; a place where we navigate an intelligent, insightful, humorous, informative and thoughtful exchange of ideas. The online comment section should be a place where we learn to understand each other’s points of view and where serious conversations evolve…
Once an affair has been uncovered, we often ask – from the pained position of the person betrayed – when it began? We fantasize that pinpointing the precise moment promises to shed light on the motivations and on possible ways to prevent any further disasters from happening in the future. There is understandably a hunt…
You are probably aware of this, but the biggest weapon in your relationship arsenal is your ego. When it comes to egotistical love (the unhealthy kind of love), you turn to your ego to make the decisions, rather than your spirit. You might be wondering why is this a problem? The problem with this is that…
Have you ever wondered what prompts couples to give up on their marriage? While there are certain events that can push a marriage over the edge many couples are successfully able to weather a lousy marriage for a long time. Other than infidelity, I have observed that therapy is often the cause for one spouse to…
A horrible metaphor of our post-modern society is addiction. The addiction to drugs, alcohol, cocaine, and culturally sanctioned, corporatized prescription medications is arguably one of the greatest problems facing Western society today. When addiction(s) hook you, they take your longing captive; and freedom is invaded by an attachment—the need for more. The depth and complexity…
Stop crying! Dry up those tears. Stop crying! Folks tell us we are weak for crying; When all we want is a hug … a squeeze. We apologize for crying. With our tears streaming without warning, Folks interrupt our crying; When our tears need listening and not someone’s preaching. Can they tell we crying? The…
Although Impeach is “a legal term used by the legislative body to level charges against a government official,” the heart of this word speaks to a decision many of us have faced when our relationships are on the brink of ending—whether or not to Impeach our partner … Impeach our relationship. I have always…