Do you sometimes want the rewards of real love so badly that, when you don’t get them, you feel like giving up altogether? Fear and doubt has been wreaking havoc on my mind & heart lately and the discomfort led me to doubt what I believe is true–that love sometimes develops through tests of disappointments…
I’ve been emailing back and forth with a woman who is trying to get emotionally closer to her boyfriend, but in a way that always results in their arguing. Here’s the deal: It’s so HARD to get close to someone when you don’t understand how to problem-solve through conflict. Don’t get mad at me… Just…
21st Century Love Relationships I arrived home safely last night from my trip to California. And woke up this morning to snow, wind and cold temperatures. That’s life in New England! Congratulations to all who stepped up and took advantage of the FREE Strategy call. You are AMAZING! The 3-Part Video Series will end soon,…
DISEMPOWERING THE GHOSTS! I am eavesdropping on a conversation where a woman is talking about how much “baggage,” her fiancee brought to their relationship. What she’s talking about is so juicy that I couldn’t help but get interested. So I said, “Excuse me, I don’t mean to eavesdrop (which is not true), but I can’t…
Your Ex Is Costing You Amazing Love Letting go of someone we have loved costs us amazing love because struggling in the pain and the hurt takes its toll on us physically and mentally. I don’t care what anyone says. Facing hurt and pain alone is excruciating. Which is why I want to help you…
Your Ex is costing you amazing love, and I have created a 3-part video series, “Clearing the Space: How to Let Go of Past Relationships and Communicate with Love and Savvy” to help you with just that. If you don’t have time to watch all of it right now go to the 2nd video and…
I get it . . . I wish that communicating and expressing ourselves in relationships were easier. However, every time I see that things are difficult, I see it as an invitation grow in a different direction. I know this sounds like a cliché, but stop and take a minute to ask yourself, “What do…
The people I work with often believe that it’s easier to start over with someone else, or easier to be alone. I tell them that, in my experience, healing and growing relationships are challenging — that all couples who desire to create a sustaining and loving relationship have to go through the trenches of healing…
I wanted to reach out sooner, but my heart has been heavy. Last week my surrogate brother took his own life. His suffering came at the hands of a long battle with bipolar disorder and schizophrenia. Hearing the news was both shocking and not so shocking. After the Buddhist funeral service he requested, we were…