So my approach to helping couples heal from infidelity begins with shifting their attention away from the old victim/perpetrator narrative to focusing their attention on the concept of the relational space between which is where their being together is really happening … Relationships happen in the space between you and that space is sacred. The…
There will always be something happening around us. We will encounter situations in life that are stressful, i.e., work, travel, children, finances, shocking election results, illness and yes, relationships. Life creates these waves on the surface, but within us there is a place that is intact, calm, peaceful and whole. It’s the place where we…
Those conversations leave us feeling empty, ashamed and starved. My client said, “I think I’ve said everything I needed to say.” I acknowledged him and said, “Sometimes things are left unsaid in us because our heads jump in and judge it. So we push it down and bury it. So it’s important to take the…
A lot of us get into relationships only to find ourselves becoming someone we do not recognize. We become mean to our partners and we don’t like the way it feels. We also don’t like the way the other person is treating us. In moments of quiet and solitude, we think this is not who…
Is your relationship failing and you are wondering how to get back up again? I realize this is a very vulnerable subject. So I hope this helps you today. I was working with a couple last week and the husband asked me, “Do you work with a lot of couples? We have been struggling a…
Would you like to turn the marriage you have into the one you want? These truths will help you do just that and build a strong, healthy marriage. Ninety percent of the frustrations you partner has with you are really about the issues from childhood. That means only 10 percent is about each of you…
In the “IMAGO Providence Couple Intensive Sessions and Workshops” you learn that your relationship journey will guide you back to your original wholeness, full potential, and aliveness. To rediscover the person you were born to be you must fully embrace the journey. You’ve likely discovered that your reactivity and defenses are blocking your progress along…
The greatest challenge any couple face is living with the seeming contradiction of the relationship paradigm—namely that there is no such thing as an individual, that no one is an island, completely independent and self-sufficient, since we are all connected within a universe of interrelationships, and so how do we live in relationship, at the…