He is hooked on porn

My husband has a problem with porn.  At first he would just be on the computer a lot looking at it.  Now he has gone overboard. I recently found out that my husband asked a 22 year old girl to make a porn movie with him and sell it on the internet.  I found out…

She lied to me can I trust her

I am engaged to be married to a woman that has started to concern me. She has an extensive past and I am finding out more daily. She has repeatedly had unprotected casual sex with many partners. She and her last boyfriend had a fight and the next week (while broken up), she became intoxicated…

Can People Really Change?

Yes. With conscious awareness and the right tools we can upgrade our patterns. We can learn effective ways to communicate and interact that foster lasting happiness. This is not about changing who you are. It is about giving yourself new options and and increasing your repertoire of what you do. It is about learning how…

What Makes You Angry?

The word anger comes from the Latin “angere,” means “to strangle.” Defined, anger is a strong sense of displeasure and antagonism that arises when a need isn’t met or an expectation isn’t fulfilled. What typically gets us angry is being treated unfairly, manipulatively or with disrespect, especially if it’s intentional.  Also feeling unappreciated, feeling threatened,…

Trust the Process

Our society is in the midst of an emotional meltdown.  We are restless, irritable, fearful, frustrated and our tempers are about to blow. None of this is how we want our lives to be, but our pressure cooker society has pushed us to the emotional limit. We deserve relief from getting tormented by daily stress. …