Yes. With conscious awareness and the right tools we can upgrade our patterns. We can learn effective ways to communicate and interact that foster lasting happiness.
This is not about changing who you are. It is about giving yourself new options and and increasing your repertoire of what you do. It is about learning how to be effective in getting the love you both want. It’s about learning to operate as a team to co-produce a secure functioning partnership.
A retreat with John gives you the rules and tools for secure functioning. You learn what promotes relationship satisfaction, and how to do it. You experience the difference this makes. And you take home these new tools to keep your love on a positive track. As you continue to practice using them, you solidly master the art of secure functioning.
While many couples get lost over time because they don’t know the rules of secure functioning, you can be different. You can rewire your brains — and your relationship — to be more loving and less reactive. You can share happiness in a strong, secure connection.
Most of us don’t realize our power to do this. We don’t know how to turn things around when we hit a bump on the road. So the road just gets bumpier, and we get less happy traveling it with our partner.
You don’t have to settle for this.
Knowing the right tools can make all the difference. With the right tools, you can change everything — and do so much quicker than you thought possible.
Armed with the tools you get in a retreat with John, you can turn destructive patterns around, repair past wounds, and rewire your relationship for security and happiness. In a few days, you can get the keys to make your love life healthy, happy, and strong.
