Do you see patterns? Do you see your patterns? Do you see how helpful those patterns were at one time? Do you see the patterns that are working against you? Do you see the patterns tripping up your relationship?
Old patterns can emerge within a conversation prompted by a simple glance at a watch.
What drives our patterns are our mindsets. Mindset is the collection of our attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors. This collection of attitudes, beliefs and behaviors drives how we see the world and think of ourselves in the world.
My Imago work is dedicated to mindset interventions.
Our ability to change our mindset is a unique quality of being human.
When we have repetitive difficulties it behooves us to consider looking in the mirror. I often ask clients to assess the story they tell themselves about the given situation.
That story is a window into the complex mindset that may now be out of date, but still deeply impacting your relationship.
To learn more about mindset interventions register for an Imago couples weekend workshop where we help couples learn how to see patterns clearly and change their mindset which increases intimacy, passion and connection. Click here.
