Every time I feel that I am close to someone or someone wants to get close to me, I panic and do something to let them down. I sabotage all my relationships. Now there is someone I like, but I keep hurting him as much as I want to be with him. In the past…
I have been with my fiance for 6 years. But for about the past 2 years we have been very unhappy. We have issues or problems that have been going on and yet we have really failed to being them to each others attention except when we fight. Along with all of this, my fiance…
I’m 49 and in love with a married man. I’ve been in love with him since I was 24. No one has ever compared to him. He has declared his feelings in the most passionate and sincere manner. If I hadn’t known him so long and so well I wouldn’t have believed it. Of course,…
I recently married a wonderful man. I have two problems that are really interfering in my marriage. Jealousy and anger. I cringe every time he mentions a female’s name and the thing is I trust him entirely but I don’t trust the women. I was engaged to a different man many years ago and he…
I have recently gotten engaged after 4 years together with my boyfriend. I am happy, but I’ve found certain things that I think are inappropriate in a relationship. I’ve heard his voicemails and some have been other women. I don’t usually jump to conclusions, but now that I am engaged, I seem to take the…
I have been with my partner for about 9 months now. He has a reputation as a womanizer, and of late has been showing me this side of his personality. It started with letters from ex-girlfriends that were descriptive of things that they would do to each other, and just today I found that he…
I was in an emotionally and verbally abusive marriage for 14 years. Been divorced for 2 years. I know that I’m codependent because of the previous abuse. I dream of a loving caring man to be in mine and my children’s lives. I’m scared because of my past. Want to leave it behind, but I…
I have been in a serious relationship with a girl for over two years now. Last year I went overseas for a few months by myself to work. While I was there she couldn’t handle the loneliness and she met another guy. I was devastated when I found out I went home right way. There…
My husband has a problem with porn. At first he would just be on the computer a lot looking at it. Now he has gone overboard. I recently found out that my husband asked a 22 year old girl to make a porn movie with him and sell it on the internet. I found out…