Let me begin by saying that I use the term “Black” and African American” interchangeably because many African Americans refer to themselves in both ways. Black marriage is in crisis. The marital rates are declining faster for Black couples than for any other group. Why? As an experienced Black therapist specializing in Black relationships, I…
“You’re strong,” sounds like a compliment until you realize some folks see Black men as an unbreakable force of nature, incapable of experiencing pain, sorrow, fear or disappointment. For generations, White people have crafted myths to justify the exploitation of Black men. For example, when Black people describe their pain, doctors often doubt their experiences…
One of the biggest problems we encounter in relationships involves more than our minds. People tend to think with their feelings and decisions are made from this stance. When people are searching for a resolution to confusion, they will do or say almost anything—even if it is not rational. Therapy provides a window in learning…