When couples first contact me, they often want to know how I am going to help them solve their problems in the relationship. It’s a reasonable question, because it reveals the couple’s sincere belief that their relationship is a problem to be fixed. This belief is, in and of itself, problematic and tends to reinforce an adversarial stance which only serves to further polarize partners’ positions. I’d like to take a moment to share several ways I shift the problem-focused approach into healing and adventure. - I help couples reinvent their relationship by dissolving pain reinforced by cycles of reactivity.
- They learn a new mode of communication using the “Three Invisible Connectors” the relational space, the bridge and the encounter.
- I open your eyes to the previous unseen and unfolding possibilities in your connection.
- These processes also deepen the body, mind and spiritual attunement, and create profound relational transformation–REAL change.
Each specific tasks helps couples do something different in their relationship. Talking about problems and gaining insight in therapy is good, but it is not enough. Unless couples learn new ways to interact with each other they will never get beyond the difficulties they have already encountered. These practices and processes will motivate and re-ignite your relationship into it’s fullest potential, deepest meaning and purpose.
If you are ready – then I have an answer for you!
- ? Design Your Wildest Dream Relationship and Live into it!
- ? How to “Honor” the Relational Space
- ? Hold Hands and Shape Your Brain
- ? Embracing Differences: “Turtle or Hailstorm?”
- ? The “Visit”: Moments of Closeness
- ? The “Visit”: Moments of Closeness,” Pt. 2
- ? And More!
This is a valuable relationship skills building course for couples who are ready to move beyond problem-focused thinking, and recognize that their relationship was born with unlimited potential and that frustrations and pain send that unlimited potential into hiding. And… I’m offering it now for only $497! (Yes, there’s a payment plan).
Get the details and register here
So check out “Power of Two Coaching” – and see if this is your path to creating a new “happy” life and relationship together.
I’m excited to begin working with you!
Paula
